I was walking to the movie theatre with my mom %26amp; there was lots of people outside of it just loitering around. Also a lot of people in line for tickets. So I walked by the first time %26amp; I heard some guys whistling %26amp; I didn't know if they were whistling at me or what. So we walked by again since the movie wasn't playing %26amp; they started whistling %26amp; yeliing, "Damnnn girl! Sexy! You got a fine a**!" I tryed to ignore it. Then they said something about my mom %26amp; that was the last straw. I screamed back, "shut up!" twice. Then they got really rude but we then left. Why do they do that? I'm only 15 %26amp; I wasn't dressed like a slut or anything. I just got back from dance class %26amp; I had some gym pants on %26amp; a kind of fitted shirt %26amp; I was wearing glasses. That really pissed me off.
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Yes it is quite disturbing. I think it happens because some guys are just total jerks. They probably did not have a father figure in their life...let me re-state a respectful gentlemanly father figure in life. Age has nothing to do with it, a lady can be 13 or 67 and it will still happen. Best!
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To let ya know your hot!
now im not gonna be bias bout my answer ok.... my view is guys really arnt like that we rnt all pigs and pervs we get like that when we r with other guys like its just something we do to fit in with the guys
because ther pigs ! yeahh baby
ignore them
I am a fifty year old man, and admit in my youth I have been guilty of such things. There are several reasons. One is to impress their friends or the object of their attention. Another is insecurity, fear of rejection. By not approaching in a reasonable and acceptable way and risking rejection, there is no close contact and a positive response makes them look cool. A rejection or being ignored allows the option to claim the woman is frigid or otherwise incomplete. Some are just a disgrace to their alleged manhood and have no respect for women. I now, and for many years try to live by the following tenet- 'A lady is a woman who causes a man to act like a gentleman'. I prefer ladies to be my friend. If we can find a common ground that may facilitate romance, then that romance is all the better for it.
Don't forget, there are some females who enjoy and encourage this behaviour.
because we just do. and we like to get your attention so we can check the lady out. im going to shut up now. one of these days u will figure out why we whistle at females.
most guys are perverted and rude! dont ever get with a guy like that. they think that they are the **** and they can have who ever or whatever they want. i hate that when it happens. just ignore it, its like the only thing to do.
I totally understand you. Some guys are such pigs that have no respect for women. Don't pay them any attention it's not worth it, hun. Keep you head up and be strong. More women need to be feminists and strong. Don't ever let a man get to you. You were just there to enjoy a movie with your mom, not to impress anyone!
Guys will be guys. Around their friends they feel that if they act a certain way towards girls they will come off as "Cooler" to their guys. Once i was walking outside some guys screamed out of a bus that i just got a boob job! . Just don't listen to them, they will see how wrong they are about talking to you that way
have you heard of low class people
not all guys do that but you are 15 so i assume guys your age were whistling at you, at puberty guys are always really horny. Some people are really bad at talking to girls and they think that you would take it as a compliment, just calmly look uninterested and they will stop, if you say shut up they will get mad.
they think you are hawt..i mean....what do you expect....they are boys.
because most guys dont care about girls and they are just really immature.
well that's the way boyz r we can't doing anything about.
dont let them bother you.. they are people with nothing to do
they probably thought you was hot and wanted to get your attention...maybe just showing off and having a laugh with there friends and you ended up in the middle of it all ...don't worry about it
Ignore BOYS like that!!!! Some men/boys unfortunately have no game what so ever and have to resort to getting a girl's attention by yelling and whistling!!! But if you respond to it, they win!!!!
By ignoring them you let them know that is not the way to behave around a lady!!!
Because from time to time a girl will respond favorably to this behavior. Intermittent reinforcement increases behavior .....look it up.
I know it is tough NOT to respond to ignorant people...BUT, you just gotta do that. They 'want' a response from you. Be a better person (which I am sure you are) and walk on by and 'pretend' they are NOT there!!
I've always wondered the same thing
Because we're pigs! We also do it impress our friends with the "shock factor" thing. I would just ignore it next time. We need to be treated like little kids so just pretend that we're not there.
there jerks, thats why, not all guys r like that
well im a guy, but i dont do those things.
they do it cuz they think it makes them cool. and they want to show there friends that they can.
also they prob think u like that sort of stuff and think u will do u no wat just cuz they said those things to u.
they are rude.
they dont no how to treat girls.
dude you have to live with it, dirt guys use that to attract dirt girls.
thats what dumb assholes do when they want to get the attention of the girls, I think. anyway they are just losers that doesnt have anything else to do than wasting time. you just ignore them thats all!!!!!!!!! or if they dont leave you alone call an authority, and they will take care of them.
Guys mature way later
some never do
its life
Guys are...guys!
They were born to like girls, therefore they ARE a little perverted XD
Also, guys in groups are stupid cuz they sometimes feel like the need to show off...
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